What's Selfishness:
The best thing is to avoid the undesirable and learn to enjoy what seems compatible.
Well...how to avoid the undesirable when everything seems undesirable?
Well... begin making things desirable. Simple.
How?
Begin liking the world.
But, I cannot!
Everything seems unwanted. Hopelessness prevails everywhere.
Ok. Why such cynicism?
Because, people are selfish, world is selfish!
Ok. And you mean to say you are not?
Meaning?
When you discard the world out of your choice, you are selfish. Remember our choices germinate out of our own selfishness because, we don't involve anybody else but take decisions based only on our understanding. Thus...
Selfishness is NOT in "others". It is in each one of US.
Dr. Payal Trivedi